I was mostly raised by my mother and grandmother. My Aunt and my cousins, also had a vital role in my upbringing, allot of my after school time was spent with them.
This was the foundation for my life. I have always seeked the company, opinion, approval and perhaps even the safety of other woman. Sure, i have had my fair share of girl drama, but my true squad always came through in times of need.
In my adulthood i have realised the best therapy is some girl time. Pouring that glass of wine, perhaps doing our nails, and having the biggest gossip, catch up and laugh together, always does me a world of good.
Think about it. As wonderful as our male friends/boyfriends/husbands are, they will never truly understand what it is like for us to be in a “mans” world. Being picked last for promotions, huge salary gaps, objectified and used, who else can we share that with? Most of us women have similar experiences, even the secret ones we will never share. You would be surprised what some women harbour, providing a safe environment with open discussions, will help others express themselves and share truths.
Opening up to another woman, even if just to talk shop, is rather cathartic. They can truly empathise with how you feel. You are seen, heard and excepted. When it is difficult to balance life, surrounding yourself with other woman and supporting each other, is what builds that undeniable female bond that will last a lifetime.
If the #metoo movement showed us anything, its that we need to continue to fight. We are strong and resilient, together we can climb any mountain and tackle any beast.
I have found it so important to maintain and nourish strong female relationships. Even if they are far away or life gets busy, i like to pop a message here and there to check in. We all need that sometimes. Us women have to stick together!
Till next time…
Life Stuff with Tania Snyman 